Take the time to allow yourself to imagine, feel, or recognize how you contribute to creating your life, your reality here and now, by letting go of "the drama."
There are people who sit and wait for life to pass by, for work to come "knocking at their door," for that partner to arrive, almost like an online order they've placed. They live in eternal complaint, in dissatisfaction with everything, blaming their father, their mother, what happened 20 years ago, the boss, or anyone who crosses their path...
Take the time to allow yourself to imagine, feel, or recognize how your life can change if you get involved, if you take yourself seriously, if you let go of the "culprits of your tragedy," if you assume yourself as the creator and owner of your reality, here and now, despite what you have experienced and with all that you have lived through.